BE YOU

"To Bernice the next week was a relevation. With the feeling that people really enjoyed loking at her and listening to her became the foundation of self confidence (Fitzgerald, 11)." Why is it that we rely on others opinions to feel self confident? In today's society we stress so much on being independant and original, but we contradict this by our own self esteem and confidence. It's crazy to say you don't care about what other think of you. You would be lieing- to a certain extent. Basing your whole life on what others think would lead you down the exact same path as the person beside you. America is the land of freedom and choice. Choose to be your own person!
With Bernice and Marjorie, Bernice being her own person wasn't good enough. She didn't fit the expectations of her selfish cousin, Marjorie. Therefore without Marjorie's approval, Bernice lacked confidence in herself. I believe that confidence comes from within. Your deepest desires drive you to reach toward your dreams. One small step toward each goal shows your confidence. You have to have confidence in yourself to get anwhere in life. Outside sources, life friends and family help to boost your confidence and encouragement but, by no means should they be the "foundation" of your confidence. Being your own person is stronger than what other people want you to be- so be true and be you!