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Hazard Yet Forward: A Meeting of Past and Future Selves
Retro-Lindsey, dusts herself off: You didn't forget about me, did ya?
End.
*The script is a very rough draft, but it conveys the general idea.
In order to compose this second blog
portfolio I asked myself, Have I improved
as a blogger? Since portfolio
one, I've been careful to give proper attribution to all borrowed content. I would have never thought to use someone else's
words without attributing them properly, but in the past I was less considerate
when plucking images from the web. But, No more! I definitely feel like a more
responsible blogger. I credit this
to the remix project, which taught me that the role of copyright extends to the
world of easy accessibility, also known as the Internet. In that respect, I show improvement. I
am not perfect, though; my blogs received significantly less comments this time
around. One reason may be the titles of my entries. Although I see them as
catchy, I realize now some might not be very telling. For instance, I used the title "Beep, Beep!" for one entry
where I talked about impatient parents at my son's school, who beeped for me to
hurry as I tried to drop him off one morning. Beep, Beep! doesn't clearly convey my topic. Titles are an area I will address in my
future entries. I like being able to identify both my strengths and weaknesses.
If I cannot see my faults, I cannot improve, and this class is giving me the
tools to see.
Interaction...
I mention why I think female athlete's get
negative attention on Beth Anne's A Stereotype That I Just Can't Seem to Shake.
I also commented on DJ's Parents - the New
21st Century Idiots!
Depth...
This time around I incorporated some
creative writing into my blog. Writing for me is never a shallow process. One can never merely dangle her feet in
the pool. She has get in over her head. So for depth, I offer Penance.
Discussion...
I responded to Jalen's tweet about how all
photography today is retouched.
Also on my blog, I've tried to incorporate
content (a quote or image usually) at the beginning of every entry that will
encourage myself and readers to think deeply. In my entry Into the Black Hole, Our Words Vanish, I talked
to Kayla about why text messaging is toxic to our writing skills.
Outside Material...
For Into the Black Hole, Our Words Vanish, I
offer links to various websites that scold poor grammar habits.
In Stereotype Me Not I link to a peers blog
and a video about creating stock characters.
Ethos...
I think the way in which I approached the
remix project says a lot about who I am, my tendency to approach things in a
serious and intimate way.
Something that I think is also detectable
in my entry Beep, Beep!
Convention...
A tweet that conveys emotion in less than
140 characters.
A creative title that was catchy and
informative.
"Character is the result of a system
of stereotyped principals." - David Hume
I recently commented on a classmate's blog about stereotypes, which got me thinking about how much we actually depend on them. It's true we depend on these oversimplified ideas about people in order to make sense of the world around us. I don't condone stereotyping people, and I'm not suggesting it is right. All I am saying is everyone does, even those people most adamantly against it are guilty.
Think of it in fictional terms. What is a stock character? Answer: A stereotype. The jock. The mistress. The loner. We have ideas about what these personalities will look like and how they will act. The practice of oversimplifying in order to draw a point of recognition is common in fiction, and it is done to help people make sense of the themes and motifs in a story. Now a stock character is never a central figure in fiction, but even the protagonists have stock qualities that enable us to recognize them. The best way to rationalize this tendency is to recognize we are predisposed to stereotypes from an early age. Think of every fairytale or biblical tale you know because writers manipulate our familiarity with them to create their fiction.
Think of it as a way of identifying. Remember the persona we created in Writing for the Internet. We chose images of people we knew nothing about to portray a target audience. My group chose a picture of a young man that we "thought" looked athletic and upbeat. We have simplified, long standing ideas about what certain things should and should not be.
I have no resolve for this post. I am
simply considering how much a part of life stereotypes are. Does their abundance somehow necessitate them?
"I saw a dream
which made me afraid, and the thoughts upon my
bed and the visions of my head troubled me." - Daniel 4:5
A hazy, overcoming sense of fear mingled with
panic pervades the air--or is it dissolution?
I run down blackened stairs. Meeting the
last step, I stumble.
(Get up, Child.)
Down a vacant hall a hollow doorway waits. A
familiar threshold that always brought me into a hospitable space.
Dropping onto newly tattered knees, revelation
finds me. I am not welcome ... not permitted to enter. There is as well
the sudden sensation I'd expected rejection.
I grope at an invisible barrier, concrete with
resistance. Tears slip from infant eyes. I beg, forceful at first.
"PLEASE!" Until, lament becomes no more than pitiable
whimper.
A fate had been chosen--by me, alive in the dark,
content among unseen evils.
I muster another bout of enthusiasm for my cause.
Aware I deserve no better. "Please, I didn't know. I
didn't...." Rasping sobs escape in unbreakable sequence. Shame is
overwhelming. Fear debilitating. Punishing regret bruises my soul,
and then
the intangible partition dissolves.
I dart to the farthest recess of the opened
room. Comfort I welcome, but peace does not follow. The crippling
presence left outside taunts on.
(Quiet now. Hush.)
I am humbled, embarrassed by the fall, a descent
acknowledging an inadequate estate.
I cradle the fear that this redemption is but
temporary.
©2007, Official Star Wars Blog, Beep!
"Patience and fortitude conquer all things," said Emerson.
I believe I possess
the first but am without enough fortitude to pacify my desire to verbally ream
the impatient parents at my son's school.
Monday thru Friday I deliver my child to the place where learning
occurs. And the lack of common courtesy demonstrated by fellow parents astonishes
me. People who, mind you, ought to posses the virtue of patience. Parents are, after all, the very
figures children model themselves after.
Allow me to describe the behavior these children witness - and are being
taught indirectly.
School begins at 8:45 and students must arrive by 8:40. A faculty or security person will assist the children from the vehicle and aim them in the direction of the building. Important if the child is younger. I normally drop James, my son, off around 8:25, a little early. At that time there isn't always someone waiting to help the kids exit the vehicles.
This was the case last week when I got out of my car to
help James. I'll add that James is
never quick about anything. He's 6. Nothing is so dire as to make him feel a
need to rush. Frankly, I wouldn't
wish him otherwise. Time is of no consequence when you're young. That said he
fiddled a bit before slipping his backpack on. It was also raining some, so I
took a second to pull up his hood.
Then, I waited until he walked into the building. The whole process
took, oh, 3 minutes. Three minutes! In those 3 minutes, the few vehicles in
line sounded off at least a beep per minute. This was absurd to me. Did they expect me to shove my kid
out of the car, speed off and not look back? Is that what they do each morning? I wondered.
I later shared this story with my own
mother. She had the most simple,
perfect advice (as mothers always do). She said, "Next time that happens, April,
you just smile and wave." I will
smile next time. It's the polite thing to do and is certain to infuriate them,
which makes me smile on the inside too.
I bet you
have your own stories about impatience, or just plain rudeness. Feel free to vent them here. I'd love
to hear. Or maybe you think me too
sensitive? Do tell.
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