Reality TV. Yuck, right?
Perhaps so. I think so to some extent. I can't stand shows like Joe Millionaire, Battle of the Sexes, Survivor, etc. The types of reality shows based on competition....is that reality? No, but then again one can argue that nothing on TV is reality. I whole-heartedly believe that all of these so-called reality television shows are scripted and mapped out just as much as your every day, run of the mill sitcom.
I am going to have to admit, despit my hatred for these shows that offer millions of dollars to convince your parents you're marrying some fat slob, I am a Real World junkie. Oh yeah, and Newlyweds, and Laguna Beach.
Sickening, I know. I never thought I'd watch TV at all let alone "reality" television. That quickly changed when I moved into my dad's house and lived with cable television for the first time ever. Yes, kids, somebody can live 18 years with only 4 channels! *gasp*
I think the appeal to shows such as Real World and Newlyweds is the gossip factor, and the fact that we know what is happening in the lives of the high class, admired, rich celebs. I know my best frend and I sit around and say, "So how about what Jessica said to Nick last episode? Did you SEE THAT?" We talk about these celebrities like we know them personally, and it just gives us teenagers something to gossip about. Not to mention it gives the media something to buzz about. Yes, we all know of the Jessica Simpson Chicken or Tuna slip-up. Gossip, gossip, gossip. It's what draws the audience in, especially the teenagers. We live for drama...life just isn't the same without it. Sad.
Blogs. What do you think of when you hear that word? I certainly don't relate it to reality television in any way. Blogs are on a much higher level because they ACTUALLY deal with "REAL REALITY." I use that term because ever since "reality" television, our ideas of what reality is has been skewed. I'm sure there are people out there who think driving around in a stretch Hummer with 22 inch spinning rims is the only way to live. ER! WRONG.
Wih blogs, people are writing about real topics and occurances in their every day lives. Granted, I'm sure there are blogs out there in which the content is entirely based on fictional stories or something of that nature, but generally speaking blogs contain completely real, non-fictional content.
Blogs can be a form of entertainment, but I feel they are much more educational. They're also entertaining in the sense of commenting. People love to chat, debate, argue, raise points, and praise one another....it's just human nature. Blogs allow people to do this easily and, if desired, anonymously. Blogs are an ideal form of communication.
So there are very drastic differences between the two. I do feel the reason for watching reality TV and reading/writing blogs boils down to one thing:
WE ARE NEBBY BY NATURE! We want to know what's going on in other people's lives, simple as that. We want people to read what we write and comment on it.
Now don't get all offensive, I know many people write blogs to inform the world of various topics. But really, think about it....whose blogs do you read? People who you know right? Generally speaking, probably so. You want to know what's going on with people you know. Same with the Real World....we don't know those 7 people at first, but we come to know them by the show, and after a while we want to know what they're up to so we watch religiously.
Whew. I'm going to stop rambling. Comments welcome. =D
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Posted by: Diesel at November 8, 2005 6:25 PMThat's an interesting point you made, Vicki... The one about a woman picking a man after only a week or so with him.
When you think about it, it is becoming almost "acceptable" for romantic relationships to be born and die within short periods of time like that... Could reality TV play a role in this?
Posted by: ChrisU at November 26, 2004 9:39 PMI agree with you that the shows are one of the farthest things from the real world as you can get. The write for there to be drama and the drama is stupid most of the time. It is almost like high school and high school is not how the world works. Then what is real about the tv shows making peole eat things that they would not normaly eat or by makeing a woman pick a man to be with after haveing only a week with him and besides that it is not a week with just him it is a week with 20 guys. Bloging does have drama and the writer of the blog can take control and change things in the blog to cause drama but it is not as bad as tv.
Posted by: Vicki Mara at November 19, 2004 12:13 PMNeha,
I personally don't go out searching for new blogs. Yes, I have come across new blogs, but that's by people commenting on my diary/blog, or a link to a blogger on a weblog I frequently read. After time, and comments back and forth, I come to "know them." So those are the blogs I read frequently. I don't sit down at my computer and say, "I'm going to go look for new blogs to read." I just stumble upon them and if I'm intrigued, I start to get to know them. And never did I say people ONLY read blogs of people they know...and by "knowing" I don't mean just personally. Just clarifying myself.
We read the blogs of only the people we know? That sounds like a contradiction in terms. Haven't you come across any new blogs since you started blogging? If one of the goals or consequences of blogging is community building, then wouldn't interacting with familiar blogs be similar to clique-ish behaviour?
Posted by: Neha at November 5, 2004 10:10 AMEvan! I hate "WWE" wrestling! It's just absolutely hilarious to watch because they've given up even trying to make it look real. My 14 year old brother has been obsessed with it for years and he still watches it like there's no tomorrow. I can't stand it. Urgh. Sweaty men rolling around in speedos and combat boots not hitting each other....hmmm....
Posted by: storm at November 2, 2004 4:34 PMI will never understand why people watch those quote-unquote "reality shows." They remind me of the professional wrestling fad (which I also hate); ya know its fake, but ya watch it anyway. At least there's a story behind the so-called "scripted" shows.
Posted by: Evan at November 1, 2004 9:36 PM